We all swear on long-lasting relationships and undying love. Relationships are fragile. They are good as long as they last. The bonds have to be nurtured with love, patience, perseverance , care and last but not the least ADJUSTMENT. At times egos have to be shed and loved ones have to be accommodated and have to withstand the test of time. Harsh realities, ego, misunderstandings are catalysts who hasten to corrode the base of the relationship. Many a times we take a relationship for granted.
Sometimes, some relationships have a shelf-life and are accompanied with an expiry date.Clinging on to a failing relationship is hazardous or lethal to mental health. It is, therefore, prudent to release oneself or the other person involved in a relationship from the intricate maze of entanglement.
Some relationships are like co-passengers for only a limited time period in the journey of life. The goal is not just to reach the destination but to savor every moment of the odyssey of life.
One may argue that it is easier said that done. But humans are capable of scaling Himalayan heights and diving into the deepest oceans. Let us start with a small step of either coming closer or going away with no rancor, to lead a better life.
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I always thought friendship was for life, Kalpana and held on despite my feelings. Not any more - I value myself too much now to cling on to people who I don't need in my life.
ReplyDeleteThe need of the hour is to hold on to a relationship as long it lasts but make sincere efforts to keep it alive but the moment its shelf-life expires, distance oneself without ill-feelings.Thank Corinne for reading.
DeleteIt is true, what they say, isn't it? That some people are in our lives for a reason, and some for a season?
ReplyDeleteCynthia, I agree with you. Some people come into our lives for a reason while some come for a season. We have to accept them or choose which to have and which to keep aside. Thanks very much for reading.
DeleteLovely post on relationships Kalpana :)... agree with what Cynthia said.. people come into our lives for a reason...and I believe we should learn when to let go of them...very difficult though...almost impossible for me to do it...
ReplyDeleteEarlier it was impossible for me too SuKepedia, but I am slowly learning it. Thanks for the compliment.
Delete:) you can call me SuKu :D :D.. Sukupedia is my blog O_O
DeleteOK. I will call you SuKu. :) :)
DeleteVery nice article. Sometimes the hardest part of a relationship is letting go, even though we know it is dangerous to hang on. Sometimes we feel that things will change for the better, that the other person will see the light; sometimes they do, but only when it is too late...
ReplyDeleteYou are right, Mary Purpari. Thank for reading.
DeleteWell said! In life there is a purpose for everyone we meet. Some will test us, some will use us, and some will teach us. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in us.
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