Monday 29 July 2013

LIFE BEGINS AFTER DEATH.

They rushed to the City Central Hospital with hopes in their heart and a prayer on their lips.They both expected a miracle to reverse the worst  fear that their inner mind was forecasting. Shankar Shastri knew his losing  battle with the inevitable but Janaki Shastri had a faint glimmer  of hope as a mother hopes the best for her child. Her unflinching faith in God gave her an opportunity to cling on to the  slender twig of hope.

They reached the Intensive Care Unit of the Hospital and saw through the clear glass barrier that separated them from their only son, fighting a losing battle of life and death.They could get only a glimpse of their  son and were quickly ushered out while the father of the patient was called to sign papers. Janki with a host of her relatives who  had gathered in their hour of need and tragedy sat on the cold metals chairs in the lobby where  a marble statute of Lord Ganesha was installed. Her gaze fell on the idol and she closed her eyes to say a silent prayer as she had done  exactly a month ago.

A month ago .......................

She was waiting patiently at the entrance of their row house craning  her neck to get a glimpse of Raja riding the bike.She garlanded the bike, anointed the black metallic vehicle with  kumkum and haldi (red and yellow powder) and Raja completed the  auspicious ritual by breaking the coconut in front of his prized possession.It was his 21st birthday. It was a gift from his father as he had got a job in a MNC.

Today...........

A month later he was involved in an accident . His dream vehicle was crushed beyond recognition and so were the hopes of his parents.

Shankar Shastri came out to the lobby. He suddenly had aged , his gait giving a sign of the turmoil raging in his  heart. He came  and sat  close to his wife whose hopes  were balancing on the precipice leading to an unfathomable valley of death. He took her trembling hands into his and without  making an eye-contact with her, closed his eyes and the tears burst the dam of calm composure that he had been withholding. Janki , too cried. The couple without a single word being uttered ,communicated the worst fear. Raja was  declared brain dead. Their only son lay like a vegetable whom  they had  raised so lovingly. Their hopes of getting him married  and playing with the children that he would have sired , a tradition of seeing the family lineage continue has now ended. Shankar Shastri now had a mammoth task ahead on him. Janki refused to hear his pleas as he tried to make her understand. She argued that it was against tradition and she was a firm believer in re-incarnation. She was sure that her Raja would come back to her in some form but this act of her husband acted as an impediment . Shankar Shastri reminded her of the 'daans' (numerous charities) she had done and this was the highest form of donation and they could be sure of Raja 'living' through the various recipients that would enable to revive the dying hopes of others. Finally Janki agreed to her husband. The doctors were informed and they both signed papers for organ donation.

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Losing a loved one is terrible and Shanker Shatri and Janki's grief knew no bounds. But they decided to allow the doctors to harvest the organs of their son to enable others to begin life after Raja's death. This is the highest form of donation and some state governments in India are working  towards the success of organ donation. There are various cumbersome laws . Various NGOs , social workers  and doctors  are working towards raising awareness and  making pleas to individuals to pledge their organs after death.

Readers, do share your views on this delicate but important topic?

18 comments:

  1. What a wonderful and brave decision by the parents. Loved the way you wrote this story.

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    1. Thanks Bhavya. Y'day the newspapers were full of stories of organ donations and some were so poignant waiting to receive an organ.

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  2. You've picked a very sensitive topic, Kalpana. I believe it's important that we find ways to pledge our organs/bodies before our death.

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    1. Before pledging one's body for donation, Corinne , one should be fully aware of the undertaking and how it will help other people even after death. Only then the true value and essence of donation is achieved. Thank you for reading my post.

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  3. That was a very brave decision... and yes, I do agree that pledging one's organs is a good deed.
    Had it not been for the young man who had pledged his organs/body for donation, I wouldn't have gotten a new ACL (Ligament)

    You have expressed it beautifully.

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    1. It so thoughtful of that young unknown man to have taken this decision. He has saved the lives of many people. Bow to him and his relatives.

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  4. Heart wrenching story, Kalpana. I've experienced this first hand.

    God bless you.

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    1. Thanks you Vidya for the blessings dear. I know from what I read in the newspapers that its so traumatic.

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  5. Heart-wrenching story, Kalpana. I've experienced this first-hand.

    God bless you.

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  6. Kalpana, from a thought that is doing rounds, you made a story..One that makes one rethink about their beliefs in their moments of crisis, when their world has shattered beyond pain to think of someone else's Life..How beautifully have you woven all this here Kalpana :)

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    1. Dee, organ donation starts with the relatives agreeing wholeheartedly to the procedure. This awareness creation is long,tedious and time-taking than the actual removal of organs. The human feelings play a vital role in it. in fact I feel that this delicate topic should be introduced in school syllabus.

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  7. There might be a huge hole in the parents' lives, but this act of theirs would help so many people live. Pledging one's organs is a must for all... it would add life in lives of so many!

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    1. You are right Shilpa. the religious beliefs acts as a deterrent to this holy mission.Awareness should created form the grassroot levels. We still have a long way to go. But a small step taken today will have its repercussions tomorrow.

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  8. I love your imagination always Kalpana, this is a fabolous thought!!

    Yes I believe strongly in organ donation and have always wanted to do one for myself too.

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    1. Dear Privy, yesterday's newspapers were overflowing with the news on this topic. A young man with a four year old baby girl said that he wanted to live to see his daughter grow up and he needed an organ transplant. It was such a poignant real life story.

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  9. yes absolutely and undoubtedly this is the biggest donation you can make... Just last month I got my card from the State confirming that my body will be used up after death and I also signed papers that in case of a medical situation where I would not live my body parts can be harvested....

    Felt so good after this....

    Hey I got your comment on that Chetan Bhagat's article, but in mail and not on blogger... :( :( can you mail me your email at sukusapru@yahoo.com so I will copy paste that comment and send it to you so you could post it back on my blog....I still have your comment on my email

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  10. kalpana I always find your post highlighting issues that our society is grappling with. What a wonderful way to frame the question for us. Many would have no believed the post would end on that note. Well I am firm believer in this and feel that man's constant strive should be to help others and this is very important...

    Richa

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  11. well written kalpana...organ donation..that one final contribution that one can make, that transcends caste,religion,status and equalizes people. One place where community certificates play no role..thankfully.

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